The cost of a gay marriage proposal

Today on Queercents, I describe how I proposed to my partner and how much I ended up spending to do so: “I previously blogged about how I would eschew diamonds in my marriage proposal to my partner. At the time of that post, I was still trying to figure out exactly how I would go [...]

Diamonds are a tradition that gay marriages can do without

Today over on Queercents, I discuss diamonds and gay marriage: I’ve been giving a lot of thought to how I want to propose to my partner. Do I want to do something simple and romantic? Something dramatic and public? It’s not something I ever really thought I’d need to consider, but lately I’ve been searching [...]

Defining yourself

Over on Queercents, Marc posted about how he feels ostracized by the gay community for his beliefs. Actually he says LGBT community, but I’m going to distill that down to ‘gay’ to simplify my argument. I commented there, but I wanted to address a particular point at greater length. Defining the gay community “Gay community” is [...]

Breakup cop-outs

This is a response to Greg’s latest blog. It’s true that saying you’re “not capable of a relationship” is a cop-out. It’s more accurate to say you no longer want to be in a relationship with that person. Of course, that sounds pretty harsh, so many people take the cop-out route. I wonder if Greg’s friend would [...]

Love and Values

Looking for someone with the mindset to plan ahead for their future is the opposite of shallow

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